It might sound like a bandwagon you’d rather avoid or too-cliche to be useful, but personality assessments and personality theory can be incredibly helpful for self-discovery and managing relationships when used for growth, understanding, and wisdom. Likewise, understanding personalities, and the personality quirks of others can also be used as a weapon leaving someone feeling exposed, misunderstood, and vulnerable if not used correctly or with an attitude of love. Knowledge, while certainly something we all should be continually seeking, without love is pride. Clothed in love and grace, understanding the core tendency’s of yourself and others gently exposes our masks giving the space to change.
If you’re just now diving into understanding your personality and the personality of those you’re in community with, here are a few book recommendations for getting started.